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All entries for 2006
12/26/2006: My 3 day weekend.

12/23/2006: Gift giving.

12/22/2006: Mind of Mencia

12/19/2006

12/16/2006: Where have I been?

12/09/2006: Only the minimum.

12/08/2006: untitled

12/07/2006: untitled

12/05/2006: Public restroom experience.

12/04/2006: Closer to my goal!

12/02/2006: Baffled.

12/01/2006: Where has my week gone?

12/01/2006: Why me?

11/30/2006: Wash your hands.

11/28/2006: Something is very wrong...

11/25/2006: Do you dream in different languages?

11/22/2006: Sex, deception and Taiwanese vs. Japanese.

11/22/2006: Psychos, houses and mother-in-laws who can be considered psycho.

11/20/2006: Big trucks + me driving = 90% change of accident

11/17/2006: Blogmad.net

11/16/2006: WTF!

11/15/2006: Angel and Vic Zhou

11/15/2006: Vengeance is best served slow.

11/14/2006: There needs to be a time limit rule...

11/13/2006: Mars.

11/10/2006: Where is the rain!

11/09/2006: The cleaning ninja!

11/08/2006: Confession is good for the soul.

11/07/2006: Over priced movies and kids.

11/06/2006: Marie Antoinette.

11/03/2006: Uneasiness

11/02/2006: Dirty looks...

11/02/2006: Menopause Fairy where are you?

11/01/2006: WOOT!!

10/31/2006: All in a name...

10/31/2006: I feel the love!

10/30/2006: Personal space.

10/29/2006: Finally done!

10/29/2006: Password protected recipe.

10/28/2006: Almost there.

10/27/2006: Appropriate gifts.

10/27/2006: untitled

10/26/2006: Behold the power of QVC!

10/25/2006: Do you want fries with that?

10/24/2006: Random thoughts.

10/20/2006: Fickle and can’t seem to learn...

10/18/2006: I want...

10/13/2006: Finding happiness in hectic times.

10/11/2006: Being responsible SUCKS!!

10/04/2006: And then there was none...

09/30/2006: Only to be single...

09/22/2006: Free at last!

09/14/2006: My mom always did tell me not to stare at people...

09/12/2006: Manga, homeless, Jun <3 and lack of sleep.

09/10/2006: Karma.

09/07/2006: His ears must have been burning.

09/06/2006: Bangs head against wall...

08/31/2006: Hot water.

08/22/2006: No pain, no gain!

08/17/2006: Mixed feelings...

08/15/2006: Buyer beware and why I dislike UPS!

08/09/2006: Hobo Stew.

08/07/2006: Oh to be so close and yet so far away...

08/06/2006: "I long for you." It's a compound of love with zero impurities.

08/05/2006: In need of a maid...anyone willing to work for free?

08/04/2006: Say WHAT?!

08/03/2006: Hi-Ho, Hi-Ho…Back to work I go!

08/02/2006: Is there a doctor in the house?

03/09/2007 6:44 PM
Crap...

This was written yesterday.

I normally wouldn’t write a disclaimer on my opinions, but since I could potentially offend people I consider friends here’s my disclaimer:

These are just my thoughts and opinions on the quotes I’ve given. I’m sorry if you take it personally. If you’re truly upset send me an e-mail or a note and I’m more then willing to talk to you about my opinions, values, morals and ethics.

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So I’m surfing blogs on Blogmad and I’m not really reading the blogs like I normally do when I just care about the points. I’m not sure what caught my eye on someone’s blog (I didn’t care enough to get the link to share…sorry), but I think it was the picture. So I started to read the blog and I couldn’t help but laugh and get pissed at the same time. I found this whole blog rather amusing, but these two parts really amused me.

“We are constantly bombarded with the message to compromise on the standards for living Jesus established and to do things according to the rest of the world. While, it has to be admitted, living according to Jesus' teachings doesn't make life easier for us (in some cases it will make life more difficult) it will make life a whole lot less complicated.

For an example I have a friend who has been concerned about the possibility that he fathered a child by another woman before he got married. I have no such concern because it is impossible for me to have fathered a child because in this area of life I have remained faithful to the standard God has given to us. Living according to the standards of God will not remove life's difficulties and tragedies but it will keep us free from the heavy baggage so many other people are forced to carry because of their decision to violate God's standards.”

The problem with his friend is not because he’s not following Jesus’ teachings. The problem in his friend’s life, well the example given, is that his friend is a ho bag and had sex with someone who he was not committed to since if he was then he’d still be with the girl and not married to someone else huh. Following Jesus’ teachings has nothing to do with worrying if you’ve knocked up or are knocked up. It has to do with the fact that you had sex with someone you obviously were not committed to. If you are committed to each other then you wouldn’t be worried. You might be surprised that I used the term “knocked up”. Getting knocked up is not getting pregnant or getting someone pregnant and not being married. It’s when you get pregnant or you get someone pregnant and you aren’t. His friend is the latter. Do I feel sorry for him? Nope. Sleeping with someone should only happen when you’re committed, and I mean fully. If you choose to sleep with multiple people then you should realize crap can happen since nothing is 100%. Since I believe in soul mates it means you wait until you found him or her. Until then you’re just trying to find that one person and should wait. Once you found them getting married should never be an issue since that piece of paper should mean nothing. It should hold no weight on your commitment to each other, how much you love and care for each other, etc.

“... During my 33 years of life I have had but one girlfriend, though I have asked out every girl I have ever wanted to date. Her name was Eve and we dated for 6 months during my fourth year at Nebraska Christian College. Most of that time she had an apartment off campus (I lived in the dorm for my entire five years at NCC).

I remember one night I was over at her apartment (in retrospect this was such a bad decision) and she began crying. I asked her what the matter was, but she wouldn't tell me. Since it was getting close to curfew for the dorms (11:00 PM) I gave her a kiss good night and left.

A few weeks later she told me about her past. Before coming to Nebraska Christian College she had gone to another college. While there she kept a dorm room, so her parents would believe that is where she lived, but in actuality she lived in an apartment with her boyfriend. She said that the reason that she was crying that night is because she wanted to do those things with me that she had done with her former boyfriend, but she knew we couldn't.

If I had never committed myself to God's standard of sexual intimacy to be reserved for marriage what would have happened is that we would have given into our desires? From the experience related to me by friends who did compromise in this area it has led to problems in their marriage (even in the instances when it was their future wife they compromised with). When we compromise God's standard we always end up making our lives more complicated and adding more negative emotional baggage to our lives.”

So his girlfriend not only lied to her parents, but she slept with her boyfriend and now feels guilty for being a hoe bag and for living with someone she wasn’t committed with. I don’t get lying to your parents about a relationship. My mom and dad did the same thing and they both said they wished they had told the truth since when their parents found out they were more hurt by the fact they lied then that they lived together. If you aren’t proud of your relationship and can’t hold your head up high when with the person or speaking of them then GET OUT NOW! It obviously isn’t the relationship you’re meant to be in. When you love someone completely you have no hesitation when speaking of them. You have no hesitation in showing that person to others you know. You have no hesitation of showing how much you love and care for him or her. Not only that, but they went out for a total of 6 months and he was already wanting to bone her. Seeing how I doubt this happened towards the beginning of their relationship and not the end it makes me really wonder about his pent up sexual frustration.

This guy seriously seems to be a masochist. I’ve never known someone to surround him or herself with people who live their life in an offensive way. Since he follow’s Jesus’ teachings so strictly, although I’m pretty sure he “pounded one out” after his girlfriend and his get together (for the young readers if you don’t know what it means you’ll find out when you grow up), you’d think he wouldn’t have so many friends that live such different life styles. I know I don’t. I am proud of each and every person I consider a friend. If I wasn’t then I wouldn’t consider them as such.

I find it also interesting that some of these friends find that having sex with their wife before they got married a problem. Why? What negative emotional baggage is there when you have sex with someone you love? Seriously, I would like to know since I have never felt it before. Then again I’m not married yet. I also know that when I do get married nothing well change except our costs on things will go down because of the perks of being married. Since we moved in together we have treated our relationship as a marriage and live as if we are married. All of our hidden habits came out and there were some ones that made me groan, like the first time I fell into the damn toilet at 2 in the morning...

This brings me to something that happened recently. I need to give you some back story though. My boyfriend is a year younger then me. We started going out while he was still in high school and his family loved me. He started to go to school every day, he did his homework, etc. because I told him he should. (School in general was boring to him. He’s the type that slept through class and got straight As on the test because all he did was read the book...bastard.) Then when we decided for him to move in with me I turned from a wonderful woman to a manipulative queen B. I will not lie, I did cry to get him to move, but he lived 400 miles from me and I was going broke driving down every week or twice a week to see him. I wanted him WITH me, always...

After he moved his dad came up once and we went to visit a couple of times. Then my boyfriend received a letter from his dad shortly after he told them where he decided to go to college, mind you his father who was almost making 6 digits alone made no offer to help pay for his college it was all on us, but of course expected his son should go to college. The letter was something you’d send to a company when your appliance did not meet your expectations. He basically told him I was manipulating him into going to college and getting a higher education and to watch out for me. Yeah...I know... So he cut ties with his dad. No lose there since they weren’t close. For a long time I hounded him to speak to his father. My boyfriend used to call his grandmother often and she would hound him too so he quit calling so often. Then a letter from her came. That’s right because they forgot what happened to the last person in the family that called me names. She went farther though and so bye bye grandmother. His mother was the only smart one and saw how stupid his dad and grandmother was and kept her mouth shut about me and just kept her urgings to speaking to his dad and grandmother.

Well recently we found out that my boyfriend’s grandmother is dying of breast cancer. She knew she had it, but didn’t want to get it checked so now she’s dying from it. After trying to call her for a while we moved and somehow his mother got my cell phone number and called. (This by the way is NOT good news! I dislike my mother-in-law and for her to have MY cell phone number is hell on Earth. At least now I know which area codes to not answer.) So my boyfriend finally talked to his grandmother and she asked, “So do you still love her? Are you still happy with her?” not once, not twice, but three times!! We’ve been together for 8 years, longer then most marriages! I won’t lie and say it’s been all candy canes and sugar drops, but we love each other and are completely devoted to each other. We know we’re each other’s soul mate. This is it. There are no maybes or questions if we are “the one” for each other, not even my beloved Jun could take me away from my boyfriend. She’s dying though and I have a strict rule where you forgive those you had problems with when they are dying or dead. It’s going to be very hard for me though. Even though I disliked her for what she said about me I did try very hard for my boyfriend to keep contact with her. He never listened to me and after a couple of tries I gave up. I refuse to be some nagging wife who’s always harping at her husband or finds faults in everything he does. They were there from day one, stop being a b**** about it and lighten up!

Since we moved into our new apartment I’ve found myself slowly becoming a neat freak. My boyfriend still isn’t and I’ve decided to take the work upon myself, except for jobs he’s always done like the trash. I’m the one being picky about it so why should he be punished for my new found habits? They are mine so I will deal with them.

6 Comments.


If they got married, it means they had found the right person so why would they be ashamed of premarital sex with that same person?! It's completely illogical. Don't you think he's the slightest bit narscisstic as well? I mean, he obviously takes Jesus's 'teachings' seriously and completely devotes himself to it, but why would he have a girlfriend who does not? It seems he takes some pleasure from re-affirming the righteousness of Jesus's way over and over again. Watching as his friends' lives fell apart because they didn't believe/follow and thinking to himself, "See? That's why I'm right." At least that's my take on it.
Not even Jun could break you up?! 0.0 That is one heck of a declaration. *bow* I'm very very happy you found your soulmate! Good for you. What's wrong with your in-laws? Yeesh. But I agree about the grandmother, why make her last days uncomfortable? You are a much better woman then I'll ever be. *sigh* XP
» Silver-dot- on 2007-03-09 11:22:55

Okay...
I didn't mean it like I wouldn't forgive her--the woman's on her deathbed. My last sentence was...in general. ^-^
» Silver-dot- on 2007-03-10 11:45:49

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